Why I Became a Relationship Coach

My journey into relationship coaching did not begin in a classroom. Like many of you, I struggled with love addiction and unhealthy patterns. It was not easy. Working with my husband, Matt, as business partners at Aligned with Love showed us both the powerful transformation that’s possible when you commit to your personal growth. Our goal is to help you get clear on what’s happening in your relationship and give you strong tools for real change that you can implement by yourself so you can feel empowered without needing endless sessions becoming dependent on your therapist as it normally tends to happen unfortunately. We can also help you implement those tools and all this can happen in just 2 days! 

Our Process at Aligned with Love

• We start by listening to your unique love story.
• We help you understand the real issues beneath the surface.
• We guide you step by step through our Aligned with Love framework so you can get your unique relationship breakthrough based on your particular situation, no matter where you are at.
• We work with singles, couples, and anyone committed to have a great love life!

The Couples Energy Balance Programme

One of the most common things I hear is, “We love each other, but we just can’t connect!” Often, the problem is not love, but a misbalance in masculine and feminine energies. In our program, we help couples (all couples — same-sex, polygamous, or traditional) recognize and balance these energies. Here’s how we guide you:

• Self-awareness: Understand your patterns before trying to fix your partner.
• Alignment: Learn how your personal energy affects your relationship.
• Communication: Discover where breakdowns happen and how to repair them.
• Intimacy: Heal the gap when physical and emotional closeness fades.
• Trust & Commitment: Build a strong base to move forward, not backward.

Sometimes, past pain shows up as anger or withdrawal and most of the time resentment runs like poisoned blood through the relationship veins. We work together so you feel safe to open up and love bravely again.

Growing Together: Love Languages Matter

Arabella asked if sharing the same love language is best. My answer? Yes…and no! If you and your partner express love the same way, you’ll probably feel understood. But, in the long run, it may cause you to miss out on growing together.

What we teach:

• Personal Growth: Understanding different love languages makes us more patient and generous.
• Healing Patterns: Many of us use “unhelpful” communication habits from childhood — but this can change!
• Respect: True intimacy means celebrating each other’s differences (in words, touch, or actions).

Remember, sex and intimacy are part of the love puzzle. The secret is learning how each of you gives and receives love best.

What’s Special About Our Relationship Therapy?

People ask me: Should both partners do relationship therapy? Of course, it’s best! But healing can begin with just one. Our 6-month relationship therapy programme includes:

• An intensive first session to set goals
• Monthly calls for progress and accountability
• Deep dives into masculine and feminine energy
• Both online and face-to-face options
• Extra private sessions available if needed

We end with a celebration session so you feel ready to keep growing, flying on your own feeling empowered in any situation!

Coaching + Somatic Therapy: Heal Your Heart, Not Just Your Head

Many clients have tried cognitive behavioral therapy or read dozens of self-help books, but feel stuck. I combine relationship coaching with somatic therapies (like hypnotherapy and family constellations) because lasting change comes from healing old wounds stored in our bodies and minds.

• Coaching helps you clearly see your blind spots and take action.
• Somatic therapy gently untangles deep, unconscious patterns you may not even realize are guiding your choices.

Real transformation is holistic. I believe we need both!

Accountability: We Walk Beside You, Every Step

Are you afraid nothing will change, or that you’ll waste time and money? Our clients come to us right before divorce, often burnt out from other “solutions.” We offer:

• A 2-day intensive relationship coaching workshop to jump-start change
• A 6-month process with weekly support calls
• Guaranteed results if you follow our step by step proven process
• A money-back promise for qualified clients

Results mean you understand how you came to this situation and you get the tools for your relationship transformation and you know how to effortlessly implement them so no matter what life throws at you, you can always feel in total control knowing what your best move is and also the worst one and the natural consequences of it. Our focus? To empower YOU. 

Empowerment and Boundaries

You cannot control your partner — but you can empower yourself. We teach you how to:

• Set and defend loving boundaries
• Spot and stop manipulation (check out my free ebook on manipulative communication!)
• Create healthy habits early, not just when things explode

Think of it like regular exercise for your relationship: small efforts today prevent big crisis later!

Stories of Hope and Change

I love working with couples, especially those who are at the brink of divorce or want to be good co-parents despite having already separated (because they don’t know what is possible yet….).

With guidance and self-alignment, clients report feeling lighter, more connected, more empowered and more hopeful for their path ahead.

And yes — watch my interview with Arabella, where we share real stories and practical tools.

You’re Invited!

Whether you’re single, dating, married, or anywhere on the journey, we want to meet you.

Book your FREE 45 mins. consultation with Matt and/or Rebeca through this link:

https://alignedwithlove.net/contact

Let’s discover together how relationship coaching and relationship therapy can help you create a love life that feels joyful, secure, and truly aligned with your heart.

With compassion, Rebeca🥰