Real conversations. Expert insight. Better relationships.
Whether you want to reconnect with your partner, understand the patterns holding you back, navigate a relationship challenge or create healthier, happier relationships, The Relationship Breakthrough Show with Matt & Rebeca is here to help.
Guaranteed results if you follow our process or your money back
Qualified & experienced therapists
Working together with couples, and individuals in any relationship situation
Relationships affect almost every part of our lives.
Yet most of us were never taught how to communicate effectively, navigate conflict, understand our emotional patterns or create the kind of relationship we truly want.
That’s what The Relationship Breakthrough Show is here to change.
Matt and Rebeca bring together their experience working with couples and individuals alongside conversations with leading therapists, coaches and relationship experts.
Together, they explore the challenges that show up in modern relationships and, most importantly, what you can actually do about them.
Whether you're in a relationship, navigating a separation, dating, rebuilding after heartbreak or simply wanting to understand yourself better, you'll find conversations designed to give you greater clarity, connection and confidence in your relationships.
There is no single formula for a successful relationship.
That's why the podcast explores relationships from every angle, including:
And much more.
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How can parents talk to young people about sex, consent and healthy relationships without turning it into one painfully awkward conversation?
Matt is joined by PJ Livett, founder of Rephrase, to explore why adults often struggle to have these conversations, the influence of pornography and social media, the myths young people absorb about relationships, and why many small conversations can be far more powerful than one big "talk".
What happens when everyone in a family feels emotionally overwhelmed?
Educator Amanda Hill joins the show to explore emotional regulation, how our reactions shape the people around us and why learning to respond rather than react can transform communication within families and relationships.
Sometimes relationship tension isn't only about communication.
When we're exhausted, overwhelmed and constantly "on", it changes the way we react, connect and communicate.
In this conversation, Matt and psychotherapy-trained coach Joy Langley explore how our energy affects our relationships and what we can do to create more emotional space.
What if healthy love is something we can consciously create?
Love and relationship coach Heather Garbutt joins the show to explore Conscious Uncoupling and Calling in "The One", looking at how we can approach relationships — and even relationship endings — with greater awareness, dignity and emotional clarity.
We know that relationships aren't always easy.
Before creating Aligned With Love, we experienced our own relationship challenges and became determined to understand why the same patterns can keep appearing — and, more importantly, how they can be changed.
That journey eventually became the foundation of the work we do today.
Through Aligned With Love, we've supported couples and individuals who want to understand their relationships, overcome challenges and create deeper levels of love, passion and connection.
The Relationship Breakthrough Show gives us the opportunity to bring those conversations to even more people.
We speak with relationship experts, therapists, coaches and people with powerful lived experiences to explore different perspectives on love, relationships and human connection.
Because a better relationship doesn't happen by accident.
It starts with understanding what's really going on.
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Explore conversations around the issues that matter most to you.
Understand why conversations go wrong and learn healthier ways to communicate.
Discover how to rebuild emotional and physical closeness.
Explore conversations around betrayal, affair recovery and rebuilding trust.
Understand yourself, your relationship patterns and what creates lasting connection.
Navigate uncertainty, relationship endings and the question of whether to stay or go.
Explore attachment, trauma, self-worth, codependency and the patterns we bring into relationships.
Listening can give you insight.
But sometimes you need support applying that insight to your own relationship.
At Aligned With Love, we work with couples and individuals who are ready to understand what's really happening in their relationships and create meaningful change.
Whether you're experiencing repeated arguments, emotional distance, a breakdown in trust, uncertainty about your future together or simply know your relationship could be better, we're here to help.
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We always speak to clients before embarking on the work because it’s a commitment and frankly not everyone is ready for it. We need to ensure that you are really committed to getting results, as we guarantee that everybody that works with us will get exactly that.
Using our unique framework, we support you to confront the beliefs and patterns of behaviour that have been keeping you stuck as we run through a series of exercises and questions to enable you to enhance your understanding and to connect on a deeper level.
Plenty of opportunity to check-in to resolve any challenges as you are putting things into place so that we can iron out any issues to keep you accountable and moving towards your goal.
We get lots of requests to share our knowledge with partners which helps spread the message of what’s at stake here… and what’s possible.
If you are willing to put in the work this is an amazing opportunity to become your best self as this is the healthiest thing for any relationship to thrive. The support that both myself and my partner have received during the Aligned with Love Relationship support has been life-changing.
We can actually have a conversation and a discussion instead of having a full-blown argument. I am a person who is 100% in a better place there. I was down here and now I am way up here as a person and my children are here with me. It’s remarkable.
How can we possibly help?
How long will I have to wait for my first appointment?
We have availability throughout the week including weekends and evenings. We run until 9pm meaning that the last appointment is usually 8-9pm. In most cases you won't have to wait more than a few days before we can meet. You can see our availability and book here: https://pages.alignedwithlove.net/home-page-2902-1707
What type(s) of therapy do you offer?
We combine a number of different modalities and apply them to your specific needs. Rebeca's background is in hypnotherapy and she is also trained in a number of different healing modalities including coaching, neuro-linguistic programming, EFT and others. Matt's training is in coaching and neuro-linguistic programming and he draws on many years experience working in personal and organisational change. In addition, they have trained extensively in the area of relationships from where they have drawn and developed the methodologies that they use.
How many sessions am I likely to need?
We always start with an initial session so that we can assess to see whether we can support, and to ensure that it's a good fit. Beyond that if we do proceed together we have a defined structure over 6 months with approximately 40 hours work - some of these sessions are together and some are individual. You also have the chance to join our monthly group in-person sessions split by men / women. You can see, it's NOT a quick fix, but for those who are committed we know that it works 100%.
How frequently will I attend?
The first phase is more intensive where we have several longer sessions over a short period of time. Then in the second phase we have three meetings per month over the six months when you are putting things into practice.
Are your sessions online or in-person?
The initial meeting can be either online or in-person. Most of our clients from the south east tend to come to our centre in London, though it may be more convenient to speak via Zoom due to childcare or other issues. Beyond that, it depends on the session and which option you select. In-person sessions are available throughout the process.
What areas do you serve?
We have clients from across the UK, many of which travel here to London to undertake the initial intensive phase of work. We also have lots of clients from the communities closer to our centre in London. We are based in Chiswick close to major transport connections, including the M4, Heathrow Airport, London Underground and London Buses.
Do I always have to attend with my partner?
Some clients work without the involvement of their partner, though if you are joining together there will be some sessions together and some individual throughout the process.
